Adoptee in reunion with first family and currently estranged from adoptive parents. This blog is for me to work through my feelings regarding family and to journal about other important and nonimportant things in daily life.


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  • 1. Jane  |  January 31, 2008 at 8:06 am

    Hi I have just been reading your blog and wanted to send you some MASSIVELY HUGE HUGS..
    I am So so very sorry that your Aparents treated you so so VERY VERY BADLY.
    To return their grandsons photo 😦 I can not believe they could or anyone could do that 😦
    I’m so sorry they did that to you. What on earth made them so bitter to treat you so poorly 😦
    I hope things are going better for you now

  • 2. Elizabeth  |  June 13, 2008 at 1:53 pm

    I am deeply touched by having read your blog and I too am so very sorry for your adoptive parents’ abusive behavior. You deserved so much better, and I hope you know this (not just intellectually but on a very cellular level, too.) Not that it changes anything, or makes it any better, but because they are obviously very wounded people and the precious little girl they adopted could never have been expected to “fill” any well that deep. I hope, for their grandsons’ sake, that they will find the grace and courage to right their wrongs and embrace you and your family, as all parents should. But whether they ever rise to that challenge or not, I wish you healing and renewal, and peace.


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